Is this abusive behaviour?

The person who said this then gaslit me into thinking I've misunderstood. He's done this before and NEVER admits he is wrong. They were wrong for being so offensive. He then sends a message of concern because he has not seen me online and keeps clicking like on my photos. He's the one who caused the problem!

He's also started publishing stories which he didn't do before possibly to see if I'm looking at them. I hate these unsavoury c****. I wish I had a close friendship with someone nice.

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froggtongue · M

Probably time to get away from that one then.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@froggtongue they won't go away easily and unfortunately I may need them in the future. This is what happens you lack good friends.

ArishMell · 70-79, M

Block him... then ignore him. Do not respond at all. If he realises you are not responding he should see that his behaviour has become totally pointless even to him.

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ArishMell · 70-79, M

@PaleandPolluted Sounds as if better off well away from him.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@ArishMell he keeps constantly clicking like now. It's becoming like stalking.

ArishMell · 70-79, M

@PaleandPolluted That is a form of stalking, but I suggested totally ignoring him because he is desperate for a response. If he never has an answer, his antics are pointless and hopefully he will become bored with his own childishness, and give up.

SW-User

Block him

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@SW-User i kno him in person and cant really afford to do that. Sadly he was the one who rescued me from another toxic person. The cycle repeated.

ninalanyon · 61-69, T

@PaleandPolluted He doesn't have a right to be unkind to you just because he rescued you. Him rescuing you doesn't give him any rights at all, not even the right to your gratitude. You really should consider distancing your self from him even though you know him in person. Or at least make it very plain to him what your boundaries are.

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

You don’t need a reason to end a friendship. Your feelings are enough to end it and move on. No justification or explanation required.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@Muthafukajones tbh a lot of people I talk to say the wrong things.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

What's even worse is how opinionated they are for a loser who has absolutely nothing going for them. It's a joke.

WhateverWorks · 36-40

Sounds like negging. Be about time to start distancing yourself.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@WhateverWorks I swear he's been discussing it with others as well.

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