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I'm Confused. (I made an update! Link below all my text!)

Here I am again.

I have been trying to give my boyfriend quite a bit of space, but he doesn't seem to like it. Let me explain.

A good way to give your BF space is not wanting to call everyday or text 24/7 and just have a life of your own in general. I have struggled with having a life of my own since we been together, either way beforehand I didn't really have a life of my own. So, getting with him, instantly my life was just all about him.

But like I said, I need to start giving him some space and I am doing that. Hanging out with friends more, talking to others, doing stuff I am trying to enjoy (like, stuff I used to enjoy and fell out of) and all of that. But, he gets...Jealous??? He wants his own life and his own space, but when I give him that, he gets jealous about almost anything I do. Talking to others and all of that. But I don't want to be stuck up his ass 24/7 like I seem to already be.

Any who, what I'm confused about is if it's what he wants??? ALL of his signals and all of that, is telling me that is what he wants. Hell when we fight he brings it up.

But when I finally act upon it, he doesn't like it, like... It confuses me so damn much.

Anyone able to help?

https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/4419683-Im-More-Confused-Well-heres-a-new-post-an-update-I
I think given that none of us have enough insight into your relationship to give you advice about what you should or shouldn't do to give him space and handle his jealousy, all i can suggest is that you sit down and have a frank discussion with him (or via text or phone) about what you're trying to do and the challenges you're encountering.
Without accusation or blame, just trying to get on the same page.
Honest communication is so important to any relationship that is to last.
MassiveMelancholyNerd · 18-21, F
@Pikachu Thank you ^^ we're discussing it now <3
@MassiveMelancholyNerd

Glad to hear it! Best of luck!✌️
SW-User
Talk it out with him and see where it goes. I feel in situations like this, it is best to voice talk instead of text.
Chatting through text can sometimes lead to misunderstandings because voice tones are not heard through it.
Good luck either way.
RebelFox · 36-40, F
Talk to him about it. With honesty you can work most things out 🖤

 
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