I don't understand people here

They proactively message privately, they befriend you, they make you talk , they make you express, they give you an impression you are becoming good friends and for no apparent reason they stop responding to your private messages.

But they are here quite active responding to others and you know this because you have common friends.

If you have no intent to remain consistent WTF even bother to get involved so much. Don't lead them on. Better limit yourself to posts and comments. Quit playing with emotions.

Most men here are so much fun and chilled out to interact with. I enjoy talking to them. Very few women here are sensitive and polite and they are my friends.

Edit:
If you are gonna defend this behaviour there's a likelihood you can relate to it.

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Caleidoscope · F

I am not perfect neither are my responses to PM's.I sometimes suck at answering immediately OR sometimes I'm so proactive that I strike up a conversation in no time.
But I'm inconsistent.I know it because I'm moody.
I have good days ,bad days , average days , sad days.
So though it might be annoying for friends who expect a reply from me , through this post I wanna say please don't judge me.
I know it's easier to state that I'm insensitive but deep within me I'm just trying to cope up with my struggles.

SW-User

@Caleidoscope awww! That's sweet. But best to tell them than keep them guessing

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

@Caleidoscope Most of my friends know I am bipolar and am a slave to my moods.
They can actually tell when I am having a good day because I get chatty as all get out. LOL

SW-User

@Dainbramadge lol i was misdiagnosed bipolar when I'm actually borderline 🤣 When I'm not fine i don't come online at all

Caleidoscope · F

@Dainbramadge I can relate to you so much.Heck I sometimes even block ppl out of nowhere and then regret it after sometime.🥺

Caleidoscope · F

@SW-User I know.I will try taking your advice .🤗

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

@SW-User I was misdiagnosed as being major depressive.
Put on an SSRI and "WHAM". Jeckle and Hyde. I went from reserved and shy to buck, crazy wild.
I was stuck in manic mode. Sounds fun but no one should feel that good for that long.
I could do no wrong. I did some stuff the law thought was wrong tho. LOL
Any way. Chatty day. LOL
@Caleidoscope I just finally decided Bipolar is a huge part of being me and I own it now.
I tell everyone about it.
Makes life a lot easier on me because I don't have to feel guilty about being chatty as hell or non-existant.
My friends make comments now on my good days about being very out going and attentive.
When I am down they just wait patiently.
I am very lucky with the friends I have left both here and in my off line life.

SW-User

@Dainbramadge haha i was diagnosed with MDD too but until recently it's borderline and mix anxiety and depressive disorder

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

@SW-User oh yeah anxiety rules. LOL
That also comes with bipolar disorder pretty often.
I had a case of that and it was horrid.
Just flat out crushing.
I was so paranoid at that time because of it.
Do you take medication for the anxiety or actually anything?
I take a pile of pills morning noon and night to keep my stuff under control even at the level I am at now.

SW-User

@Dainbramadge i m messaging u privately

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

@SW-User okay but I only sex chat in private messages so be prepared. LOL