I don't understand people here

They proactively message privately, they befriend you, they make you talk , they make you express, they give you an impression you are becoming good friends and for no apparent reason they stop responding to your private messages.

But they are here quite active responding to others and you know this because you have common friends.

If you have no intent to remain consistent WTF even bother to get involved so much. Don't lead them on. Better limit yourself to posts and comments. Quit playing with emotions.

Most men here are so much fun and chilled out to interact with. I enjoy talking to them. Very few women here are sensitive and polite and they are my friends.

Edit:
If you are gonna defend this behaviour there's a likelihood you can relate to it.

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SW-User

Here is what I've learned with this . People have lives outside of here ,families ,work ,situations will arise ,mental health issues...it's not you ...and sometimes people are just flakey ..so it's best to not to pour too much into these things to avoid any disappointment..I do respond to pms from those I talk to regularly on here which are not many ...because they have taken time out of their lives to put forth the effort to do so ...it may not always be instantly but I do respond as soon as I am able to ..
But it's a safe bet to have no expectations of others ...this is what ive learned

SW-User

@SW-User I'm talking about people who r constantly here replying to others and you know that because there r common friends. And it's not their fckng business to involve someone unnecessarily by leading them on. So please don't assume about having a life outside. We all have lives outside of this.

SW-User

@SW-User 😳ok