english · 56-60, M
theres still a little bit of grieving going on little one, it will pass ,🤗
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
Probably because someone else hasn’t come along yet to focus your attention on
Azrael2 · 22-25
@Spokeskitties75 maybe
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Spokeskitties75 this as well.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Same here, you put all your hope into it and he only seems good because he's unattainable.
Azrael2 · 22-25
@PaleandPolluted wow you just put my feelings into words! 🖤🖤
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Azrael2 you created an image in your brain of him and thats what you miss. Same here.
Azrael2 · 22-25
@PaleandPolluted oof maybe
DrWatson · 70-79, M
Sounds pretty human to me!
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
Because your in a fantasy and your afraid to deal with loneliness that comes up after
Azrael2 · 22-25
@riseofthemachine oof but I've already cried it out lol
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
@riseofthemachine I doubt it. She's being realistic. You don't get attached after two dates. You really need to know the person to get attached.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
@Azrael2 it's a part of healing
Platinum · M
It's not you, it's them who have the problem...as you get older you will learn to see people's character better...we all make mistakes even when your old, you need to kiss a few frogs before you meet a prince..
...try to ignore it if you can
Azrael2 · 22-25
@Mandalorian I've tried but I can't control or ignore my dreams
@Azrael2 Maybe read up on Attachment Theory, Stages of Grief, The Hierarchy of Needs, The Psychology of Romantic Rejection...etc
...knowledge is power!
...and that kind of power will lead you to mastery over your situation!
...knowledge is power!
...and that kind of power will lead you to mastery over your situation!
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
I have no idea. For me to get attached, I need to know the person well. And that takes a while. Mind you, I have trust issues.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
Get the same way, it's a challenge
HannibalMontanimal · 31-35, M
Okay yeah but did you fuck him ?
Azrael2 · 22-25
@HannibalMontanimal nope... oh
HannibalMontanimal · 31-35, M
@Azrael2 why not wtf