WHY do I get attached to people so easily?!

It is truly a curse I tell you! I went on 2 dates with this guy, we had great banter, and then he had to go and reject me. And that was about a month ago! Why am I still thinking and having dreams about him? I don't even like him as a person anymore!

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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

Because your in a fantasy and your afraid to deal with loneliness that comes up after

Azrael2 · 22-25

@riseofthemachine oof but I've already cried it out lol

basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M

@riseofthemachine I doubt it. She's being realistic. You don't get attached after two dates. You really need to know the person to get attached.

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@Azrael2 it's a part of healing