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What's The Best Way To Deal With A Bully?

Poll - Total Votes: 12
Ignore them
Stand up for yourself
Be kind to them
Try to understand why they're bullying you
Get family/friends involved
Something else
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Carver · 31-35, F
It really depends on the bully and the situation. One or more of these could work for a certain type of bully but not for another type.

But I would never recommend trying to understand why they're bullying someone. That's for their counselor to figure out, not the person being bullied.
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tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
Only one guy ever tried it with me when I was 14 and he was 17.We fought it out in front of our friends inside the school gym,behind some of the seats during a basketball game.I totally handed him his ass,made him pass out using a figure 4 leglock round his neck,then when he came round I used a scissors hold from behind,squeezing harder and harder until he passed out right as 2 of his ribs broke on both sides.Everyone heard 4 rapid loud cracks.Then I held on the squeeze until he was deeply unconscious and casually kicked him away from me.Off to ER he went.He was still unconscious when the paramedics arrived to take him.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
I am going to say stand up for yourself.. but I appreciate that it isn't easy or always possible, bullies tend to pick on people who are less able to defend themselves verbally or otherwise...
Second best it get friends involved.. the best protection is to have supportive friends surrounding you - it reduces physical opportunity for bullying and they can also help stand up for you..
You can also report it.. school, work etc..
hunkalove · 61-69, M
Kick him in the nuts.
G00GLE · 22-25, M
Nothing works from my experience. Been on both sides.
A support system to "deal with it" is the best way I guess.
What kind of bully - physical - just bugging the hell out of you -?
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
a shovel across the top of their head works pretty good... 🤔
Smile. Drives them mental 😇
Beat the cunt up until they stop

 
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