Stuck on One Person

It's been a minute since my last relationship ended. Since then there have been others to fill the time. Some just as casual encounters and some who wanted far more.

And yet, here I am wishing to have the person who left to come back. I haven't felt comfortable since then. I haven't felt happy since then. Why can't I just enjoy what is there infront of me?

Too many voices. To much screaming. I need to drown them out. Blood or booze, they need to be placated.

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Wiseacre · F

The problem is u compare every new person in ur life with the one that’s gone...accept new ppl with their unique individualities and go from there...no comparing.

bunnyXbunny · 36-40, M

@Wiseacre Maybe. I guess. It's less the person and more the feeling. I want them back because they made me feel better. Guess I just bide my time how I know best till I can feel that way again.

Wiseacre · F

The feeling will change when u focus on the person in front of u!@bunnyXbunny

GohantheThird · M

Depending on how long the relationship was, the others might just be rebounds. Don't feel too bad, you'll rebound for a while before you find the right one.

bunnyXbunny · 36-40, M

@GohantheThird It wasn't that long. They just were able to make things quiet. Not many people have been able to.

Guess I'll just pinball for a while.

pentacorn · F

you'll find a better one. patience.

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pentacorn · F

@bunnyXbunny you can. you might even come to enjoy your independence while waiting.

bunnyXbunny · 36-40, M

@pentacorn No. I can tell you from experience, my independence doesn't lead to favourable outcomes.

pentacorn · F

@bunnyXbunny you might end up in several marriages, if you can't learn to self-soothe.

SStarfish ·

😕 hope you find a way through it.. 🙁

bunnyXbunny · 36-40, M

@SStarfish Even if I do, it's all cyclical.

SStarfish ·

@bunnyXbunny oh.. i used to have unrequited love for someone.. it only took me thirty years but i get over it 😄 but maybe its different if you were actually with someone (which i never was) it just sucks tho.. so.. my sympathies

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