No you're not.
Shortly before she died at 91, I asked my mother if she had any regrets. She answered, "being a mother."
I do know that motherhood was a terrible shock to her from the moment I was born. She had said it countless times in countless ways. For her, it was the loss of freedom for the duration of my childhood and for her that was unbearable.
It wasn't her fault that she didn't know how to love -- she had been far too abused as a child.
I asked her other things too, like what she was proud and happy about, what she was grateful for, and whether there was any one she wanted to send a message to or make amends to, but those answers are not relevant to the original question.