Husband having an affair

Don’t play games or give ultimatums, because ultimatums never work. You need to sit down together & discuss where you go from here - you don’t ask him if he’s having an affair, if you’re sure of your facts, you TELL HIM. Do you go your separate ways because of his infidelity? Do you stay together because you are also good friends & work through things & move on? Perhaps you might’ve been married for years & can get over this obstacle, or maybe he’s a serial adulterer - only you two know the truth & only you know what you want, deep down in your heart.

Have an affair of your own... with someone he despises!!!

You seriously don’t know what to do?

Kick his nuts into his guts..

No need for a side piece of your boi is out of action

Bless your heart

... you first need to remember it is no reflection on you ... his evil, he owns

... second, you need to seek your future ... this can take time ... decisions are long lasting


... most important, you are now vulnerable to abuse and harm ... if your intuition tells you something is up, take flight immediately

Then seek assistance ... many here, have hearts of gold, been through it and will guide you to safety

May Angel's be gentle with your heart

Confront and end it especially if you know you can never get over it

Filinging for divorce is easier said than done, but you can
1.) Ignore it and let your broken marriage eat you away
2.) Work on it likely with intensive individual and couples therapy
3.) Move on and hopefully find partners who are a better more fullfilling fit.

Depends.
But feel free to be angry.
Let him know how you feel.
But don't decide to do anything for a while.
You need to know what you want to come from this.

It depends on your relationship with him and the expectations you have. If you don’t like tell him to stop or leave him.

Ur username obviously states youre crazy enough to stay with him. So put up with it or leave.

Photos, credit card receipts, copy of text messages from cell provider, lawyer.

just let him men need a little variety

Do you have children together?
If not, leave.

Leave him and find someone who will respect you?

Fuck his best friend, boss or enemy.


Or just leave

First go with your gut and realize trust has been broken.

Second invest in a digital SLR and have a colleague follow him covertly so you have evidence to substantiate your filing for a divorce.

GTFO 🤷‍♂️

Leave

Do you ever think this so called affair is in your mind?

Some people can get past it, others can’t. Which kind are you?

Ask him if he knows anyone who might be interested in a threesome...

Idk you can’t be a pimp and a prostitute too.

Hire Cheaters. 🙂