Am I really that off putting???

Why would a guy look at me like a deer in headlights? It happens every time I’ve talked to him, I don’t get it. Whenever I say something he looks confused or like I put him off or something? 😂 and there’s delay in response....Like come on guy, I’m just talking? I don’t even speak to him often enough to bother him. It’s literally the smallest inevitable interactions and he acts like that. If anything that’s off putting to me 😂

Well, I guess I know who to not talk to🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

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SW-User

Trust me i behave that way if a beautiful woman talks me. 🤓

Sb356 · 26-30, F

@SW-User in that case, it’s flattering but I doubt it

Mindful · 56-60, F

@Sb356 do a lot of people tell you that you’re pretty?

Sb356 · 26-30, F

@Mindful a significant amount if I’m being honest but I’m not breathtaking or anything

Mindful · 56-60, F

@Sb356 then he may be startled that a beautiful woman would actually try to carryon a conversation with him (on top of his being autistic)

Sb356 · 26-30, F

LI doubt he is autistic but again, I’m average not breathtaking.. @Mindful

Mindful · 56-60, F

If he’s younger than 35, he could find you absolutely breathtaking. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some men find some women more beautiful than others and they do NOT Always share a woman’s taste for beauty. Even beautiful people don’t think they are all that. Some people just don’t want external beauty to go to their heads... I suspect that you are one of those persons.@Sb356

Sb356 · 26-30, F

@Mindful for me I think I’m really just dealing with some kind of body dysmorphia or something cause I can’t even fathom someone describing me as “breathtaking.” Even I wouldn’t go that far. I don’t see what others claim to see...I guess I just don’t understand that but I guess it’s also not for me to understand...

it’s just weird cause I see him talk to other people and he doesn’t freeze like that but when I say something to him he kinda freezes. This has happened multiple times which leads me to believe he just doesn’t want me in the conversation.

However there was the first time he saw me and I never forgot it cause it was so weird to me... he stared for such an abnormally long amount of time, I even remember feeling kind of uncomfortable at one point.
even my friend was ordering a drink from him and he kept looking at me....after we finally got her order he managed to compliment me before we left.

@Mindful

Mindful · 56-60, F

@Sb356 ha ha ha
Yep. He’s into you BIG time. He may not be.... a gentleman at all. Lol... and can’t get past his attraction.... towards you. How old is he? I don’t like it when a guy can only see me that way. I want to be treated normal.

Sb356 · 26-30, F

@Mindful I’m not sure how old he is. I feel like he’s around my age though. Possibly 20-23

Sb356 · 26-30, F

It just doesn’t make sense to me I dunno.

Mindful · 56-60, F

@Sb356 maybe you broke his best friends heart? Or his heart? In school when he was a geek?
Send me a pic and I’ll tell you if you’re a 10. Lol

Sb356 · 26-30, F

He complimented my sweater lol @Mindful

Mindful · 56-60, F

He’s got issues! Lol. He has issues with pretty people. Oh well. You can tell him you have issues with pretty people too.(yourself)@Sb356