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Am I really that off putting???

Why would a guy look at me like a deer in headlights? It happens every time I’ve talked to him, I don’t get it. Whenever I say something he looks confused or like I put him off or something? 😂 and there’s delay in response....Like come on guy, I’m just talking? I don’t even speak to him often enough to bother him. It’s literally the smallest inevitable interactions and he acts like that. If anything that’s off putting to me 😂

Well, I guess I know who to not talk to🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Maybe he's an idiot
Sb356 · 26-30, F
🤣🤣🤣@HoraceGreenley
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Had a really smart genius level professor once. Guy wrote calculus equations faster than you can speak all across three black boards. All from the top of his head.

Yet when you spoke to him he was extremely slow to reply. Like he thought about each word before saying anything.

Now I am not saying this person is that way. Just people here are seemed to be puting slow speakers down.

Like really, how do they know that this person is an idiot! 🤷🏻‍♂️😔
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@DeWayfarer I don’t assume he’s an idiot but it’s like he just freezes up sometimes and I don’t get it. I feel like maybe it’s me but that’s how I feel about everything 😂
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
@DeWayfarer can have all the books smarts in the world and still be an idiot...
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@wildbill83 like a university professor is an idiot, right!

One that had a pilot's license, I might add, and flew halfway around the world and back once in his own plane.
Mindful · 56-60, F
He may be autistic a little
Cheesecake · 61-69, M
@Mindful brilliant answer. Thoughtful and insightful 👍🙂
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@Mindful I don’t think he is and I don’t wanna just come out of nowhere and ask that 😂 it comes off the wrong way. Plus if I ever get to know him, then I’ll know the answer. If not, then it’s none of my business
Mindful · 56-60, F
👌👍️ @Sb356
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Trust me i behave that way if a beautiful woman talks me. 🤓
Mindful · 56-60, F
@Sb356 maybe you broke his best friends heart? Or his heart? In school when he was a geek?
Send me a pic and I’ll tell you if you’re a 10. Lol
Sb356 · 26-30, F
He complimented my sweater lol @Mindful
Mindful · 56-60, F
He’s got issues! Lol. He has issues with pretty people. Oh well. You can tell him you have issues with pretty people too.(yourself)@Sb356
Tres13 · 51-55, M
he knows what you did last summer
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@Tres13 😳😳🤐🤐
Mindful · 56-60, F
@Sb356 🤣
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
He may be too shy and is just secure enough in himself yet to converse directly. I’d wager he likes you.
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@luckranger71 mmm...I mean sometimes when he comes into my job, he says hi and asks my coworker and I how our day went but then when I say something he looks at me like I caught him off guard....if wager the opposite...
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
Maybe he's about as sharp as a bowling ball... 🤔
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@wildbill83 gosh who knows lol 😂
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Sb356 · 26-30, F
No lol @Kingfish28
Steve42 · 56-60, M
Maybe he feels awkward in all social interactions. Maybe it's not you.
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@Steve42 well I would I would hope it’s just that cause it makes me feel kinda bad.
Steve42 · 56-60, M
@Sb356 He could be completely unaware. Or he could be aware, but respects you enough to think before he speaks. Either way it's not an attempt to dis you.
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Maybe he’s socially awkward
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@Freudianslip13 well yeah I mean I guess I get awkward too but usually when I’m addressed I respond.

I guess I shouldn’t be so harsh in my assumptions.
@Sb356 whatever it is, I’m sure it’s not you. Or it is and he’s just rude. But probably not.
Cheesecake · 61-69, M
I think he likes you 😏
Sb356 · 26-30, F
Trust me I’ve considered it but something just doesn’t add up @Cheesecake
Cheesecake · 61-69, M
@Sb356 fair enough. Just a thought 👍

 
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