I've lied to my more closely valued friends and have decided to take it to the grave, is that ok?

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I can't bring myself to telling them about the truth about my past. We've been friends for at least 5yrs. now. I lied about taking someone's virginity back in highschool during prom night. That was the idea at least, we just didn't do it. Everyone else just assumed because the situation implied that it happened. I've never taken a virginity. I've only ever had mine taken. My friends and I are still pretty close I think I'm just beating myself up about the fact of lying and then taking it to the grave completely before having them ever find out.

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Mamapolo2016 · F

This whole concept is foolishness. "Taking" assumes they had something and now you have it, which you don't.

A lot of people teenaged and much older lie constantly about sex.

My concern about this lie is the person who was lied [i]about[/i]. I doubt you can know whether it affected her/him negatively or not.

If it is truly bothering you, one way (maybe the only way) to make amends is to contact her and ask what SHE wants you to do about it. My guess would be nothing. But you did her wrong, and you should at least ask.