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What do you feel about a man

That left a woman standing at the altar with a baby on the way?
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Let me just say, as a woman who was with a man who didn't want the children he created. He knew nobody's else wanted him. He would be on the street. So he used those kids while he hated me and them just so he'd have a roof over his head food to eat. My kids were raised in an environment they didn't deserve. And when I tried to make him leave he threatened to kidnap them and leave them with a drug addict mother who made him the screwed up mess he was. My 3 daughters now have PTSD and anxiety because of the way he treated them and the way he just decided to walk out on them. That baby won't ever miss what it's never had. If she loves it and it has uncle's and other male figures helping to raise it. I'm proof. It's better than having a father that's so verbally and physically abusive that you have to watch your mother get in front too shield you. I would die for those girls. And I almost had to kill for them a few times. It's better to be alone just her and the baby than to subject the baby to anything like this. I've been doing it without him for 7 glorious years now. It's very possible. And so much easier.
BalmyNites · F
@CallmeHopelessNotRomantic I’m sorry to hear of everything you’ve been through, but let’s not assume that this young man (who we know nothing about) is an abuser or in the wrong. For all we know, he could be the one suffering, we know nothing more than the little bit of info stated.
@BalmyNites I'm just saying obviously he doesn't want to be in the situation. If a man goes into a situation he doesn't want to be in he won't be happy. Anyone, man or woman in a situation they're not happy in will not "generally" be around very long or always have the ability to think clearly about a situation affecting others. Notice I said generally. My story is probably a nightmare worst case scenario but it is the point I've was trying to get across.
BalmyNites · F
@CallmeHopelessNotRomantic Thanks for clarifying, your original story was very plainly painting the guy in the wrong & as I said, without knowing the facts of this particular couple, we cannot speculate
@BalmyNites a lot of girls are really afraid to raise kids alone though. But I'll tell you, it's easier without the trauma I'm sure lol
BalmyNites · F
@CallmeHopelessNotRomantic I do know, from my own experience 🤗