I always try to see the best in people

... and time and again they show me how screwed up they can be. I so need a reset in my way of thinking and the way I see people.

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Hanging2 · 51-55, M

Trouble is it is in your nature and that is hard to change.
Perhaps be a little more selective and dont collect lost puppies

WhereGraceBegins · 51-55, F

@Hanging2 I like your perspective on the whole thing.

Hanging2 · 51-55, M

@WhereGraceBegins I have the same issues as you do.

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Hanging2 ha ha! Are you talking to me?? Collecting lost puppies. Do i do that??
I so do.....

Hanging2 · 51-55, M

@RubySoo sometimes I do it without thinking. Trouble is when they turn and bite

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Hanging2 yeah...that can happen. But usually they just get bored of yr attentions....and move on to someone they think might give more tlc.
They come back....lol x

Hanging2 · 51-55, M

@RubySoo or become so clingy.
I am a door closer. If they leave they never get back in

RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Hanging2 usually i get accused of being clingy. I smouther with love and become too much. How quicky thats exactly what one wants initially....then its too much.
I never close doors. My pups are always welcome back....i like to see them when theyve grown and matured.....lol

Hanging2 · 51-55, M

@RubySoo probably the maternal instinct and something I dont have.
My issue is that I am a giver and empathetic.
I have grown to a point where I have deleted people out of my life that drain my energy.
It is more of a survival strategy for me rather than their issues.
Why do I feel like I know you?

RubySoo · 56-60, F

Im a give and empath too.....im bad at closing doors. I find it almist impossible to cut people out.
@Hanging2