I always try to see the best in people ... and time and again they show me how screwed up they...

Hanging2 · 51-55, M

Trouble is it is in your nature and that is hard to change.
Perhaps be a little more selective and dont collect lost puppies

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RubySoo · 56-60, F

@Hanging2 usually i get accused of being clingy. I smouther with love and become too much. How quicky thats exactly what one wants initially....then its too much.
I never close doors. My pups are always welcome back....i like to see them when theyve grown and matured.....lol

Hanging2 · 51-55, M

@RubySoo probably the maternal instinct and something I dont have.
My issue is that I am a giver and empathetic.
I have grown to a point where I have deleted people out of my life that drain my energy.
It is more of a survival strategy for me rather than their issues.
Why do I feel like I know you?

RubySoo · 56-60, F

Im a give and empath too.....im bad at closing doors. I find it almist impossible to cut people out.
@Hanging2

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RubySoo · 56-60, F

The more you expect...the more disappointed you might me.
But....im not sure you should stop trying to see the good in people...i wish everyone would do it more. A lot of people are very grateful to be given a chance to prove their worth....so please dont stop looking and giving folk chances.....