Genders & Always Greener on the Other Side

I guess women also feel that they have their reasons for envy. So do say how, please. Because I can say that I feel I oftentimes envy female success at seeming right.

If I were a lady, it seems, people wouldn't judge me much. It seems to me that girls and ladies in general are spoiled - I'm not saying they are, but that I have that impression of them. Because when a woman is unemployed, then it's a pity that she can't seem to have her equal rights, they say. Thereby we don't know what we have in a woman. Because when she says she wants her equal rights, it's not equal in the sense that she doesn't pertain to attention as though she was always worse off. Oh, and I have many times seen women become very cold and obnoxious as soon as they get to know that a person, whom they until then were being quite friendly with, is either an outcast or helpless in some other way. But somehow they seem to feel their consciences are clear, even immediately afterwards. This is without seeming abrupt or anything about it, which a man generally would.

Do women feel there is a male equivalent of this?