Why do you think so many marriages end in divorce? Or why did yours?

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Sepia · 36-40, F

Only the two people in marriage knows it..within partnership, within four walls of their room. Esp when one or both cannot compromise or overcome the obstacle aka "differences". I haven't decide to marry my partner..I am willing to change my last name only with sincerity, assurance..Keeping it perhaps there is something beyond my knowledge.

SomeLikeItHot ·

@Sepia If one is cheating even one of the partners doesn’t even know the challenges.

Sepia · 36-40, F

@SomeLikeItHot but if the other cheats...it won't be a secret for a long time esp if partner is keen there will be some odd changes in partnership that is..the other one will be caught once.

SomeLikeItHot ·

@Sepia Took me 5 years with 4 kids. She suffered depression because she was hiding it but we were seeing marriage counselors while she was cheating. She would lie to counselors too.

Sepia · 36-40, F

@SomeLikeItHot bad..bad..you two had divorce?

SomeLikeItHot ·

@Sepia
She was the cheater.
We had divorce after 11 years and she cheated while kids were babies.
I lost all respect I don’t even talk to her now. What is the point?

Sepia · 36-40, F

@SomeLikeItHot rather give yourself the life you deserve. She did not respect you, she never did. I hope you will be healed.

SomeLikeItHot ·

@Sepia
I believe that, I really do.
Edit: She shared with me that I was just like her dad and that her mother never respected him hence the compromised foundation.