right now, if you disagree with someone, they will pretend to disagree with the most evident of points you make, just incase

it might later bolster your argument. It's ridiculous. Sometimes they might even ask you what your view is, before they answer, so they can best twist definitions and what they pretend to be common sense, to suit their argument. If you want a serious debate and you want to make the world a better place, I think we all know that honesty with yourself is where it starts. Seriously, what's the point of even interacting with people? If you have to lie to yourself to prove your case, you need to look at what you believe.