How do you deal with inconsistent people?

Specifically making plans and then completely ignoring me the whole day I was supposed to see them. I really struggle to deal with being told one thing and then another thing happening without anyone saying. How can I stop myself from feeling angry about it? I hate this feeling

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LadyGrace ·

Easy. Choose friends who have and show respect for you. Those you speak of aren’t friends.

AndrewtheAlu · M

@LadyGrace well, yeah, I’d like to try to, but that doesn’t change what happens today

LadyGrace ·

No, but it will change your future for the better. Those people are not friends at all. You deserve someone who values you and will treat you with respect. @AndrewtheAlu

AndrewtheAlu · M

@LadyGrace thank you. I’ll try my best

LadyGrace ·

You seem like a very nice person. I’m sure you can find some wonderful friends. If I lived by you, you would have a best friend. @AndrewtheAlu