That is why we used to date ,,back when we had social skills and was not afraid to put ourselves out there to meet someone
We got rejected sometimes ,but thats part of it ,,
But you date lots of people ,,not just settle because you don't want to be alone .
Then when you find one that fits ,,you work on seeing where it goes
All this meet someone ,hook up and then your a committed couple is madness ,,
And you want to change them and they want to change you
NO you look for someone that fits ,that you don't need to change and stop messing up someone meant for someone else that would love the one you don't just the way they are
We damage to many people that way ,,
Thats the hard part ,,finding someone that someone else has not screwed them up already or even made them forget who they are ,what they like
They have been to busy trying to please someone else
that didn't want them in the first place
They hoped they could make them into the person they wanted
Thats just wrong
