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How would you pull together a drifting relationship?

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MasterLee · 56-60, M
Duct tape apparently and flexseal.
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@MasterLee 😂
@MasterLee 🙂
abe182 · 51-55, M
🎼 Let it go, let it go
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@abe182 are you singing a song from a Disney movie? 👀
abe182 · 51-55, M
@SW-User yes I am.
Amylynne · 26-30, F
Road Trip! it will save it! or break it!
Amylynne · 26-30, F
@SW-User fudging.... that is SOOOO QYUTE!
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@Amylynne wth@ my autocorrect. 😂 That was meant to read fighting.
Amylynne · 26-30, F
@SW-User ah!
well that is the point of a road trip leave regualar things behind,,face NEW challenges.
maybe just the thing,, OR\
the thing to end it
rockstar · 31-35, M
Communicate. Try to mutually work a way out. Will need a bit of working from both ends. There has to be that understanding, otherwise it’s not meant to be for too long anyway.
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@rockstar fair enough
Imo, one shouldn't.. acceptance is a bliss... trying to control a negative situation will never work...

Moreover, if it is meant to be, it will never drift apart...
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@Soossie doesnt every relationship have hurdles? Whether friendships or romantic relationships?
People can work through.
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Of course they have but a drifting apart relationship has passed those breaking and making ups..

In every relationship thrre exist conflict, disagreement and argument, but the will to make it better helps a lot, where in a drifting apart relationship no one cares anymore..
JavaJoe · 51-55, M
I would say both parties need to be on board or the drifting will occur regardless of one’s solo efforts...
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@JavaJoe that's a great point.
JavaJoe · 51-55, M
@SW-User thank you 🙂
nem16 · 36-40, M
I wouldn't,if it's not meant to be then it won't be.
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@nem16 even fate needs a helping hand.
nem16 · 36-40, M
@SW-User I tried it before,it doesn't work.
Fernie · F
I think it depends on why it's drifting...some relationships never should have happened
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@Fernie fair enough
Put winter tires on it. Sorry I don't know.
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@PiecingBabyFaceTogether hahaha. Well winter tyres not to skid on ice. Well that is a good idea
St0ut · 51-55, M
By the hair
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@St0ut wow. You like pulling hair.
St0ut · 51-55, M
@SW-User Sometimes you need to get her attention and make her focus
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@St0ut 😂
biohak · 36-40, M
hard work(on the relationship like literally on paper) and self expression, compromise..openness and honesty about what you want
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@biohak good advice
biohak · 36-40, M
chances are though that its drifting for a reason...unfortunately
LysanderFremont · 36-40, M
Communication. Talk about the feelings one has about the relationship, see if the other has the same bits and then go on from there.
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@LysanderFremont thank you
LysanderFremont · 36-40, M
No problemo ^^ Hope it helps!
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We didn’t. I suppose it’s easier to pretend like nothing happened.
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@SW-User it is easier. But is it better?
xixgun · M
First, if it's not my relationship, I'm not getting involved.
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@xixgun okay
SweetMae · 70-79, F
Good comminication.
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@SweetMae what constitutes good communication?
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@SW-User Both sides willing to be honest and open.
@SweetMae ✔️ both - yes!
easterniowegin · 51-55, M
Self reflection. What have you been doing to push your SO away?!
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@easterniowegin 😂 this is a hypothetical qn.

So many relationships have ups and downs and drifts.. And I am interested in knowing how willing people are to fight for it.
easterniowegin · 51-55, M
@SW-User I wasnt specifically speaking to you....merely answering the asker.
We've moved into a disposable society. No one feels the need to be responsible and "fix" anything anymore...just get a new one.
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@easterniowegin that's it. It's always the easy route.
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maybe some time apart to reassess things
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@SW-User that's a good idea.
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@Peacefulpanda 😂 that's okay. I am good
@SW-User not you silly literal person.. the person I caged.
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@Peacefulpanda ohhh 🤣
SpaceJesus · 41-45
With nylon rope. Its stronger
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@SpaceJesus but you forget all the nutrients you absorbed and now pump through your veins.
SpaceJesus · 41-45
I did forget! Silly me
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eMortal · M
Like you're doing in your picture. Threaten them to shoot if they leave.
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@eMortal 😂 😂 🤣
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Improve communication. See a therapist if need be.
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@uncalled4 Ai see

 
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