Do you think I was wrong?

Okay so I told my bf's sister to not call me anymore.
Don't judge too harshly...I have my reasons.
1. She over exaggerates when she calls. Like saying it's an emergency when it's not.
2. She always takes her brother's side when we fight.
3. She accuses me of not seeing the things she goes through because she recently lost another brother(that never liked me to begin with).

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Sphere · 26-30, T

I don't know. On the one hand, you've got to do what's best for yourself and, if you feel like she's toxic, I think it's a justified action to cut her out of your life. On the other hand, this puts your boyfriend in a weird position. For the sake of your relationship with him, it might be better to try to put up with her.

QueenPeach · 26-30, F

Do what you gotta do

Mindful · 56-60, F

Does he agree? (Good for you unless she is his favorite person in the world)

It’s usually best to ignore people or hang up with an excuse to get off phone. But direct works immediately but it will make her angry.

LyricalOne · F

If your relationship with your boyfriend continues, his family is gonna be a part of your life. I think there were better ways to handle the situation.

Pitchblue

lost another brother(that never liked me to begin with). That sounds pretty extreme like it doesn't matter that he died.

bijouxbroussard · F

@Pitchblue It matters, but the OP can’t be expected to mourn him as a sister would.

bijouxbroussard · F

That’s a tough one. As others have said, as long as you’re with this guy, his family will be part of your world, but you still have the right to determine how close they get, just as you would with your own family.

Marta

Yes

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