How to tell your Ex that you already need the money he borrowed?
It’s been 3 years already but my Ex haven’t paid me the money I lend him.
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@SW-User actually this is for impurple. I had to bring my ex to court. But my friend lawyer told me great advice: she said don't wait too long because the courts might interpret that you have forgiven him I don't know if it's too late for the main person of this post, but it's worth a try. Ps. You don't need a lawyer for small claims court. You can do it by yourself. I did, and in no time at all, weekly cheques from his garnished wages started rolling in. Was awesome.
SW-User
Either let it go or take him to court if you can't let it go. It's been 3 years. He isn't going to magically come up with the money if you've been asking him for a while to repay it.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
Unfortunately you may have to accept that you'll never see that money again. You may have to chalk it up to a hard lesson learned.
WetpantsBoy · M
When you loan money to friends and family, that actually need it, you must never expect to really be paid back. Sorry😶
@WetpantsBoy i've loan money to friends and family before, and besides an ex, they have all paid back, hence that is why it's called a "LOAN". In the rare occasion I have 'given' money to friends, I had to twist their arm to make them accept it. Usually people don't want to feel that they are dependent upon someone, hence a loan is what most people prefer.
xixgun · M
Was he already your ex when you loaned it? If so, listen to Asificair and go on Judge Judy.
@xixgun You do know that she can't legally enforce her "judgments", right???
YoMomma ·
Dont lend them money.. He most likely has no intention of ever giving it back to you imo
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Say goodbye to it.
Sue his ass