What feature of you gets you into. The most trouble?

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SW-User

i tend to get comfortable with people to a certain point and then shut off and act cold to get them to leave so i have control. it's really shitty and manipulative

you'd think my awareness of it would be enough to make me stop

YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M

@SW-User that's the hard part about being an animal. Knowlege is only part of the equation.

SW-User

@YourBuddyRandall but they say knowing is half the battle, and to be halfway there is pretty good imo

XReaganX · 26-30, F

@SW-User Perhaps you feel threatened and vulnerable the closer you get to someone?

YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M

@SW-User sure is! In proud of you.

SW-User

@XReaganX that's exactly it. it's some weird abandonment issue thing.

SW-User

@YourBuddyRandall i'm proud of you too my friend <3

XReaganX · 26-30, F

@SW-User ahhhh, you're afraid of them hurting you first. So, you leave. I understand. ☺

lily88mercy · 26-30, F

@SW-User Awareness is good. At some point you'll realize the present strategy is no longer worth it. You'll then be on the verge of vulnerability. . .and discovery.

lily88mercy · 26-30, F

@YourBuddyRandall So true! So true, Randall. When the heart becomes a texture for knowedge so many things in life click into place.

YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M

@lily88mercy "A texture for knowledge"...I like that!