Is it most often best to be encouraging or brutally honest with yourself and others?

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Hecate · 26-30, F

First you must be brutally honest, then you must encourage to accept or change the fact.

YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M

@Hecate Good cop, bad cop?

Or I guess...Sweet cop tough cop.

Hecate · 26-30, F

I dont find these to be seperate. They go together. If You care you will be honest and there to encourage them at the same time.

YourBuddyRandall · 26-30, M

@Hecate I think I probably just loaded these words up with more meaning than they should. Have. I think you're,right.

Hecate · 26-30, F

Well no, they are two different things. But they go hand in hand. Or they should at least, with yourself or with someone you care about.