Girl reported for sexual harassment.

Oleander · 2018-10-26T12:56:49-04:00

Personal, Thoughts & Feelings - Girl reported for sexual harassment. So here is a story: A girl is madly into a guy, sexually.... (14 replies).

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The girl is in her rights.

The guy is in his rights.

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So here is a story: A girl is madly into a guy, sexually.
Girl is also well known for making videos, and one day, she decides to make a porn video where she pretends to be having sexual intercourse with this guy.
She then sends a link to the guy.

The guy is so creeped out by this that he straight up reports her to the authorities.

So what do you think about this? Does the girl have the rights to do this kind of thing?
Is the guy justified in reporting her?

Who do you support and why?

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Faust76 · 46-50, M Best Comment

Misses an incredibly important question about what's the guy's relationship to the girl. Harassment is generally legally defined as long-term pattern of behavior, in most if not all juridictions one-off thing like that wouldn't likely be illegal (Though it might violate obscenity/public decency laws depending on content and delivery). For various reasons everybody should be free to report to the authorities when they feel threatened, and it would also be useful for establishing pattern of behavior if it goes further.

Everything else depends on circumstances, for example did the guy know the girl did these kinds of videos, did he lead her on, was the video really graphic, since she was known for this was the video made public etc. In most circumstances I'd say she has the right, but has to also bear the consequences.

Oleander · 31-35, F

@Faust76 Y-yes, empress. You are fully right, of course.

KaiserSolze · 46-50, F

@Faust76 Did he lead her on? Did the woman in the mini skirt lead on the rapist? If she didn't have explicit consent to manipulate his image then it's was done against his will.

I don't really care. I just liked the idea of this legal debate.

Faust76 · 46-50, M

@KaiserSolze The question doesn't mention "his image", assuming we're not meaning figuratively. Rape is rape, equating it to almost anything else without at least acknowledging the difference is nonsense.

This reminds me somewhat of the women who do public reviews of unsolicited dick-picks guys send them, should the guys report the woman for harassment because they didn't given them explicit permission to publicly show & judge their junk? That's actually a serious question.

The summary also more directly reminds me of various adult cam (porn) sites where "women are well known for making videos" of this kind. A guy could be legitimately creeped out even if they were flirting etc. Even if it was not a cam site, the question makes it seem like identical situation. There are also "art-projects" that come at least close to the described situation.

I noticed now, the summary says "sends the link to the guy" so that settles a few questions.