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NotHereForYou · 31-35, F
I think this is very hit and miss for both genders for sure.
Gstringlvr71 · 61-69, M
I agree

I disagree. Older women can be like a fine wine that gets BETTER with time.
 My relationships in general are not based on physical attraction, which I assume you're referring too. Correct me if I'm wrong. I discovered years ago, that what attracts a man to a woman or vice versa, is NEVER the reason that keeps them together long term. Physical beauty fades eventually....but the PERSON you see with your minds eye, your heart, is what you end up with. This mindset helps me appreciate MORE the physical that I may not be attracted too. During the Victorian Age, if a woman wasn't 250+ pounds she wasn't considered attractive! My point is, considering beauty as PART of attraction is a matter of perspective. In my humble opinion, choosing a woman just for her looks is juvenile and immature. This understanding is something I aquired from experience working as an escort in Amsterdam. Allowing a woman to be SOVEREIGN is what she truly wants. Instead, she has too continually adjust her true appearance to suit the customs, and traditions of MEN everytime she steps out into public. I have five daughter's who are exceptionally beautiful in appearance, however, I taught them to never allow men to choose them for that reason. There are ways of knowing. And, to never waste there time on BOYS in Men's bodies. The inner appearance lasts forever. That's what I care about. What makes an older woman more attractive is not sex her elegance nor her strength nor her brilliant intelligence but her open heart. A young woman will give you butterflies yes but an older woman will give you eagles with wings strong enough to cause a hurricane every time you take a breath in her presence. A young woman will make you smile an older woman will make your tongue twist and contort because you have no words to describe how she looks at you with experience and a knowing. A young woman will come over to your house and help you clean up your kitchen an older woman will come into your life and clean up your credit. A young woman will ask you to do some shit like have sex with her make love to her but an older woman will take off all her insecurities leave her pride on your pillows then let you have your way with her. A young woman will compliment you on your clothes or your looks an older woman will come into your life and compliment your whole existence. When a young woman is introduced to the family for the first time it goes something like this: this is my girlfriend..but when you introduce an older woman it's like she is the reason I can sleep at night she is the reason my heart can beat like a bass drum but sound like a violin! An older woman is a career a younger woman is just jobs strung together to try and piece a real woman together. An older woman will make love to you before she ever takes off her clothes.... days, weeks, in advance.
SW-User
Idk, women can maintain their beauty to me
ScrewThisImDone · 26-30, F
Because mother nature has a sick sense of humor. XD
sttos · 61-69, M
I would point out that the subjective appraisal that a man becomes more attractive as he ages is both a generalization, AND the view of a [i]woman[/i], who is, as @RenaissanceMan alludes to, [i]genetically programmed[/i] to think older men are better looking or "more attractive".

The corollary to a younger female being healthier to breed, is an older male appearing stronger and more fit to survive long-term. The best of all possible genetic pairings!
Kind of a bizarre approach to mating if you ask me.
sttos · 61-69, M
Perhaps, but who's doing a "head count" during mating? It only takes 1, no?
And even if true, is that something that can be "sensed" externally -- visually? pheremonically? I wonder...

You have posted an interesting question, though.
SW-User
@sttos I mean many older men can't get it on without viagra. I believe (some) women's attraction to older men is psychologically and emotionally based rather than physically.
sttos · 61-69, M
@SW-User I agree, there are many factors that contribute to seeing someone as "attractive".
nedkelly · 61-69, M
You tell me as I am a HUNK



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Fernie · F
Fernie · F
I don't think that is true at all.
Reject · 26-30, M
A man's attractiveness is measured by his success. A woman's attractiveness is measured by her health. Older is more time to be successful. Younger is the healthiest phase of your life.
SW-User
@Reject Nice
Tminus6453 · M
Nature has it set that young women are attractive at a young age to encourage men to breed them
I honestly don’t see the appeal in older men. Most I see have wrinkles and beer bellies, and look like they haven’t shaved in years. I’ll go for the younger guys. And about the women, well, I’ve seen plenty of milf’s to say otherwise.
Lostpoet · M
You look really good for being in your 90s. I second the fact that women can look amazing throughout their 40s. Probably not as amazing as their early 20s. But who wants to sit and drink coffee and listen to a girl complain about their parents for three hours. I'm too old for that shit. 😀
@Lostpoet that’s true. They will be easier to deal with and have more to talk about 😂
Lostpoet · M
@MorbidCynic better in bed too. 😝
sttos · 61-69, M
Because it takes men a lifetime to learn what a woman knows at birth, so for her, it's down hill. BTW, the best ass I ever saw was on a 70 yr old grandmother who happened to be up a ladder next to me!
SW-User
Eh... nah. I don't think men get more attractive with age. They peak and then go downhill like everyone else.
SW-User
@SW-User 🤔
SW-User
Not true in my opinion. Both hit a peak and then it’s all downhill.
Fernie · F
😂@SW-User
We are more critical of women's appearance? Why 666?
SW-User
We do?
[i]sniffs armpit[/i]
BearDownChicago · 41-45, M
You think that? I don't know. I think I was more attractive when I was younger or maybe mid 20's. I think women are beautiful at any age.
Astro · 56-60, M
Not true I looked better younger. Everyone is different.
Lostpoet · M
@Astro I can't imagine you looking anymore atractive than your picture. 🤔
Astro · 56-60, M
@Lostpoet that one is a few years old now. I ain't looking so good nowadays.

 
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