A question for the guys.

Sometimes I wonder about things. This is something I've lately been thinking of:

How do you want to be known? As the guy with the best, most beautiful and sexy girlfriend/wife, or being known and thought of as the best boyfriend/husband? To be known as a man that has the most well-mannered, smart and successful children, or as the man who is the best father? While the second of each of these does not necessarily exclude the first, only one is the sign of a real man.