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A question for the guys.

Sometimes I wonder about things. This is something I've lately been thinking of:

How do you want to be known? As the guy with the best, most beautiful and sexy girlfriend/wife, or being known and thought of as the best boyfriend/husband? To be known as a man that has the most well-mannered, smart and successful children, or as the man who is the best father? While the second of each of these does not necessarily exclude the first, only one is the sign of a real man.
Wraithorn · 51-55, M
I only had one child and I would like to be remembered as a father who allowed her to be what she wanted to be, without burdening her with unnecessary problems or expectations.
frequentlyme · 70-79, M
@Wraithorn Then you for sure want to be known as a good father, and I am sure that is what she thinks... which is, in the end, what counts (what our children think).
VioletDreams · 36-40, F
why are you challenging guys? lol
frequentlyme · 70-79, M
@VioletDreams Not meant as a challenge, just as food for thought.
VioletDreams · 36-40, F
@frequentlyme good question nonetheless
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
A guy who stood up for what he believed.
Unlearn · 41-45, M
@MrBrownstone yeah something on these lines...rest are shallow.
People tend to get caught up in images. Each oof us has our own definition of what a real man is. In our hearts, in our minds, and deep in our souls we know. I wonder where this question is coming from, my friend.
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Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
I want to be a mysterious legend
stained · 13-15, M
Second answer to both
Ironicman · 56-60, M
All of the above please. No seriously, just to be known as a good sport who has an open door policy to family and friends. The kids just think I'm so uncool (they're at that age)
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CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
Why can't a man aspire to all those? I would like to be known for being a good wife, mother, worker, and having a smart, sexy husband--which in my eyes, I do.
YukiSohma · 26-30, F
To be the best partner or dad. I don't care how I'm known, outside of my friend circles anyway.
Unlearn · 41-45, M
None of em...

 
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