I can't believe this is even problem...

Apparently not talking about myself and stuff is ruining my relationships now...it's just that I feel so self-indulgent when talking about myself or what I want and I get really anxious if the person I am talking to thinks that I'm really self indulgent. Aside from that, whenever I did talk about myself or what I wanted, people seemed so uninterested that I just stopped. And now I find that they want me to but hEY YOU COULD HAVE SHOWN [i]SOME[/i] INTEREST EARLIER. It's so frustrating