@BlackBarbie1987 Fair enough.

@SerenitiesScars No I am not tired at all. I can sense you're really worried for your cousin.

😶 Well I think it's out of my system for now so.. *Hugs!*

@SerenitiesScars Good. :) Hugs.

@EarthlingWise :)

@BittersweetPotato That is nice.

@lostinspice Well said. :)

@lostinspice My ex wife cheated on me and whilst it hurt I cant hold her fully responsible. Things werent right, if they were she wouldnt have gone off looking elsewhere.

I did everything around the house and looked after the kids as well as work due to her having an operation on her back. Maybe I gave her too much time to sit on the internet I dont know.

Now looking forward I'm looking for love, I'm not rushing into anything . I have a pretty good life with my own home and car so I'm very much in the love I desire part of my life.

Love is not sustainable if you don't or no longer have the same life goals. That loveable waster is great at 19 when you're single and kidulting but not so good at 30 when you have kids and bills and can't fix the leaky roof and he's still waiting for that big break that's never coming, when you might desire someone more stable - but later you have more freedom and more security of your own you might choose someone edgier again. Your needs change over your life and not in tandem with your partner always and to say 'till death us do part' when we live so long is probably unrealistic for most.

@lostinspice Good points. Thank you.

@UndeadPrivateer Good thinking.

@Peppa Why do you think people have a throw away attitude now?

@SW-User just what modern society has taught us look at high street fashion. They claim fashion is changing so rapidly but it's not, they then use cheap materials that aren't so durable. They shrink or go out of shape, lose their colour after one wash, you suddenly realise you need to buy more.
This is a endless cycle of high price shit quality.
Human are the same, look the part, say the right things, spend some time with them and before you know it there's no real substance.
Plastic society!

@Peppa Unfortunately.

@SW-User It is. :D

@Anastasja87 what changes?