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If you are blamed for it anyway, shouldn't you at least commit that crime?

Why/ why not?
LyricalOne · F
So I have to live with both blame and being a criminal? No thanks. No amount of blame will make me compromise my personal integrity. They might not believe me but I know what is true.
PPHdicwiwnawiwm · 26-30, F
[b]Personally[/b], my answer is [u]no/never[/u]; they’re waste of time/energy, no offences. Thanks
frequentlyme · 70-79, M
Nope. Why not? Here is a simple answer, a true one, by the way. When I was in school and in a crowd of students trying to get in an auditorium, someone reached out and squeezed a girls butt, she turned around and I was behind her, so she blamed me. I didn't do it, and I sure as heck wouldn't then do it just because I was blamed for it.
SW-User
@frequentlyme That is one perspective of it though.
Equanimous · 51-55, M
I would rather commit crime on my own terms than someone else's. Silence and walk away. They get nothing and that's enough response.
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Novaturient81 · 41-45, F
Like double jeopardy?

Because it's my life. And I'll live it how I want.

Just because some people think I'm a hoe, don't mean I have to be one.

#imgood
symphonyssadness · 26-30, C
EXACTLY


Unless you love the person .-. I believe there will be hesitation
SW-User
@symphonyssadness But there is also a limit to how much blame you take from someone you love.
symphonyssadness · 26-30, C
@SW-User Hurts but tru
SW-User
Of course not.
Would be living to their expectations, instead of being authentic
summersong · F
No, you know you didn’t do it so it’s better to wait/work for the truth to come out.
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
No, don't give them the pleasure of knowing they were right.
rfhh1959 · 61-69, M
Depends if it violates your personal code
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Well.. you got a point there
Smokey · 46-50, M
Power of suggestion
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
Yes unintentionally
btchstfu · F
This is so inspiring
SW-User
I did this.

A few years back, in the first summer after I gave up work I was taking the kids to see my MIL every week, I missed one week as the only day she had free I was getting a filling. She told the whole extended family that I was preventing her from seeing the grandchildren. So I stopped going round and arranging it leaving it all up to her, I wasn't going to put up with her crap and have her complain about me. At least now when she complains she's telling the truth.
SW-User
@InOtterWords That's precisely the kind of crap blame I am talking of from other people.
There is no point bending over backwards for someone who will only see faults in you.
TJNewton · M
No because blaming someone doesnt mean they are guilty
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SW-User
@SW-User They're never going to realise they're wrong.

 
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