How do we change this?

Why should we? Those of us who care get broken by doing so. I'm not doing it anymore. People can deal with their own shit from now on.

I don't I always used put others before myself....I wouldn't recommend it I think a healthy balance is require.
How to change those looking out for number one? I've found it easier to go no contact.

I have often wondered what that would be like. It's kinda hard to see things through other peoples perspectives these days. Probably cause I can't get my head so far up their ass.

Wouldn't it be nice to know how to change that? I don't have the answer.

But 1 is the loneliest number. He needs poked out for.