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SunlitXHermit · 26-30
Oh no… 😓
Does the study start at a certain age, or is it just as soon as you begin dating?
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@SunlitXHermit LOL I have no idea but I'd assume as soon as you begin dating.
SunlitXHermit · 26-30
Just great. Now I don’t know if I should start, or just never do it at all. What a study! 😂
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@SunlitXHermit LOL. Just start and you can test it out for yourself.

Faust76 · 46-50, M
Reminds me of the quite annoying story that was making rounds last year about how we supposedly only fall in love with three people in our lifetimes. It's impossible for me to follow that sort of thinking, you should then just break up with the first two loves of your life and settle for the third. And people play fast and loose with love already as it is; broke up? Don't worry, it wasn't "real love".

For the majority of people it gives an excuse not to treat the relationship they're currently in seriously, as the next one is their destined one (And yes I know, conversely many people stay in a relationship far beyond its best before date). What I am getting it as more like the study seems to be asking people to define "disaster date" and "heartbreak" more so than count them, and perhaps the myth of the third love contributes to most people being on their "third real love". But the answer is always different when you ask retrospectively.
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@Faust76 Your answer made me laugh. You know, I agree with all of that.
FurryFace · 61-69, M
yeah then they get Paranoid and carry that baggage for years and never have another relationship ever , women over 45 for sure
FurryFace · 61-69, M
@SW-User well its not like i'm really experienced in relationships , just an observation of woman over 45 on the internet
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@FurryFace I have not noticed but perhaps I'm not so observant. :)
FurryFace · 61-69, M
@SW-User in time , in time
bookerdana · M
Men are always lovable? Not in my little corner of Paradise where there are many break-ups...and then D-I-V-O-R-C-E . I don't believe in odds anyway in 100% of my life I have never been hit by lightening


Now,less than 100%
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@bookerdana LOL. Are you okay? How does it feel to be hit by lightning?
Miram · 31-35, F
Whoever made that lie up needs to be context specific so it's more believable.
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@Miram Haha right!
plungesponge · 41-45, M
I'm calling my ex's right now to tell them the good news! 😁
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@plungesponge 🤣 LOL do it on a day you do not mind stuff being thrown at you.
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I'm below average so 🤷
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@SW-User You mean you still have some dating and some heartbreak to go through?
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@SW-User i currently am. Lols
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That study sounds more legitimate than the kind that says something like - Studies show that smoking may lead to lung cancer and possibily other things......:)
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@SW-User Of course. :P
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Those always make me giggle 🙃
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@SW-User 👀
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
I wonder what the male side of the statistic would be?
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@UndeadPrivateer Lol it's coherent. Impressive after 8 wines. When do you go crazy talking then?
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
@SW-User I generally maintain my coherency right up until I lose consciousness, but sometimes I just wonder if I'm losing track of my incoherency more than actually being coherent. 🤷 I of course get increasingly more rambly though.
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@UndeadPrivateer Lol I bet you're a real fun company drunk.
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@lacsar Damn I feel special.
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@lacsar :)
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I wonder if there's way to get all the bad ones over and done with in like a week or so?
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@SW-User Now that's an idea!
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@SW-User I could volunteer to be everyone's disaster date... i've had lots of practice 😂
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@SW-User 🤣
Casheyane · F
I think the human lives have too many variables for a couple few to be even considered good enough a sample for study.
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@Casheyane Precisely.
Need to work upon my dreams, according to the study! 🤔
@SW-User Keep bringing the motivators. 😇 One day that might help me prompt my dreams further.
😄
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@sspec I try!
@SW-User 😌 👍 Undoubtedly you do.
MasterofNone · 26-30, M
Sounds like a pretty good deal to me since I thought that was impossible.
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@MasterofNone I suppose if you look at it from that angle.
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@SpencerMurgatroyd 👍 It is so hilarious when people then toot such studies as proof of what happens. 🤦
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I must not be average because I experienced more than that. 😏
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@SW-User Lol
Is there a men's version of it?
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@HazPassportForYourGalaxy I've only seen this. I guess a study for men would say they always find love.😜
@SW-User Well thats an ....... optimistic opinion if nothing else. hehehee
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@HazPassportForYourGalaxy Optimism is good for the soul.
Classified · M
That's a bit sad if it's true.
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@Classified Just a bit?
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@SW-User I don't know how traumatic these experiences are.
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
I guess I'm not average.
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@MrsKatherineArch Lol I was thinking the same. They covered their arses by using the word average. Now almost every woman will think she is not average, lol.
MrsKatherineArch · 41-45, F
@SW-User Yeah, they probably polled 100 women and present those findings as scientific. I consider myself pretty average.
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There are a lot of frogs
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@SW-User Some of them turn into princes.
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@SW-User a few
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Then I am over due
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@SW-User Same, same!!
SagePoet · 61-69, M
studies are overrated
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@SagePoet This one seems to be.
Lol....I could say that my first date with my hubs was a disaster
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@InOtterWords Ah what happenend then to make him your hubs?
@SW-User his charm and wit won me over

 
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