Reminds me of the quite annoying story that was making rounds last year about how we supposedly only fall in love with three people in our lifetimes. It's impossible for me to follow that sort of thinking, you should then just break up with the first two loves of your life and settle for the third. And people play fast and loose with love already as it is; broke up? Don't worry, it wasn't "real love".
For the majority of people it gives an excuse not to treat the relationship they're currently in seriously, as the next one is their destined one (And yes I know, conversely many people stay in a relationship far beyond its best before date). What I am getting it as more like the study seems to be asking people to define "disaster date" and "heartbreak" more so than count them, and perhaps the myth of the third love contributes to most people being on their "third real love". But the answer is always different when you ask retrospectively.
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@Faust76 Your answer made me laugh. You know, I agree with all of that.
Men are always lovable? Not in my little corner of Paradise where there are many break-ups...and then D-I-V-O-R-C-E . I don't believe in odds anyway in 100% of my life I have never been hit by lightening
Now,less than 100%
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@bookerdana LOL. Are you okay? How does it feel to be hit by lightning?
I'm calling my ex's right now to tell them the good news! 😁
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@plungesponge 🤣 LOL do it on a day you do not mind stuff being thrown at you.
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I'm below average so 🤷
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@SW-User You mean you still have some dating and some heartbreak to go through?
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@SW-User i currently am. Lols
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That study sounds more legitimate than the kind that says something like - Studies show that smoking may lead to lung cancer and possibily other things......:)
@SW-User I generally maintain my coherency right up until I lose consciousness, but sometimes I just wonder if I'm losing track of my incoherency more than actually being coherent. 🤷 I of course get increasingly more rambly though.
@MrsKatherineArch Lol I was thinking the same. They covered their arses by using the word average. Now almost every woman will think she is not average, lol.