Can someone really love a person they have detestable and disdainful thoughts about?

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plungesponge · 41-45, M

Love is sometimes a set of scales, where our devotion towards another is balanced against our better judgement. I could imagine cases where someone genuinely loves someone, or at least the idea of someone, that is on the dark side of their core values.

SW-User

@plungesponge That is when it gets unhealthy.

plungesponge · 41-45, M

I sometimes wonder how healthy love really is. lol

SW-User

@plungesponge LOL. You're one step ahead of me hahaah!! I am on the path to begin wondering the same thing soon.