Just a question, because I understand you felt called out, but is someone asking you are okay calling you out? It seems a kind thing to do and caring instead. I once felt awkward at a high energy concert I wanted to be at, claustrophobic a little, and just the rush of energy I was not used to be being at then, when a girl asked me, 'if I was okay', I didn't feel called out I thought of that as being very compassionate and kind of her to even notice.
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
@awildsheepschase Yes it is. It was just done positively in a manner of compassion rather than being openly confrontational or critical.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
I used to say, "i believe " all the time. Until my brother called it out. It was like: Have you seen this or that? I believe its in the kitchen. When is john coming over? I believe at 9 o'clock. Has anyone called today? I believe Mike called and wanted to know about Friday lol i never noticed it until he called it out. I had to consciously make myself stop saying it.
Caleidoscope · F
often Im lost in my own thoughts ,and don’t give opinions easily ,ppl think if I’m following the conversation ,so I’m asked if Im okay
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
@Caleidoscope They are oblivious to the depth of those stares.
Fallflower · 46-50, F
I'm often asked if I'm OK because I sigh a lot. I'm just breathing lol
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
@Fallflower Geez lady, leave enough oxygen for the rest of us.
djjohnson · 41-45, M
@Fallflower I get that all the time too! lol
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
I have resting sad face. Nobody says anything anymore but I used to get asked if I was okay a lot.
DrawntoaDistance · M
Oh yes. I grew up in New England. I thought I was coast to coast normal in my interactions with other humans.
I was wrong.
I was wrong.
YoMomma ·
My husband tells me i mumble out loud too
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
@YoMomma Does he tell you what you’re talking about?
YoMomma ·
@SpectralMourning i know what I'm taking about 😅 I'm usually typing and mumbling out loud lol
Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
Yes but it wasnt anything serious just the way i snore
akindheart · 61-69, F
oh gosh. i do that all the time. guilty as charged!!