I don't even enjoy going out much anymore.

I used to go out to bars and clubs often with friends or even alone if nobody wanted to go out. I used to live to party. Nowdays going out just doesn't feel the same. I don't know if it's because I'm older or if I have matured in some way but I find myself on the sidelines. I used to be on the floor mingling and dancing and drinking. Now I just complain about the music being crap, the drinks being expensive, the vibe being either too much or too boring. I just don't seem to be satisfied you know? Last time I went to a club I left early because I wasn't feeling it. The crowd seemed to be college kids and I'm in my mid 30s. I had a single drink and bounced.

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Busybee333 · 31-35, F

Maybe you need a different type of ambience. I think you would benefit from a long, breath-taking hike with friends or with a group of people and a guide. Sometimes... your mind needs air and space. And your body may need to feel strong again. One of the best ways is to hike all the way to the top. When up, you can reflect on the beauty unfolding before you... take some photos... and explore in your mind different ways to make your life more fulfilling. If there are no mountains nearby, you can just pick a park and see if there are some walking events organized... it's nice to move and just feel the surroundings. Anyway.. when I am out of touch with myself, getting in touch with nature and breaking the routine helps. I hope it helps you too. If there is a way down, there is a way up - keep climbing to the best version of you, and of your life. ☀️

Crimsondrops · 36-40, M

@Busybee333 I'd love to get out of arizona for a few days honestly.

goodlil666 · 51-55, M

@Crimsondrops Vegas, Austin, Denver, Salt Lake. Flagstaff. Lol

Crimsondrops · 36-40, M

@goodlil666 Flagstaff is very doable. Anywhere but Tucson get me out of here

goodlil666 · 51-55, M

@Crimsondrops Yeah, from Tucson that's not bad. A lot cooler up there right now. I live in Phx but go up there to work a lot during the summer.