I don't even enjoy going out much anymore.

I used to go out to bars and clubs often with friends or even alone if nobody wanted to go out. I used to live to party. Nowdays going out just doesn't feel the same. I don't know if it's because I'm older or if I have matured in some way but I find myself on the sidelines. I used to be on the floor mingling and dancing and drinking. Now I just complain about the music being crap, the drinks being expensive, the vibe being either too much or too boring. I just don't seem to be satisfied you know? Last time I went to a club I left early because I wasn't feeling it. The crowd seemed to be college kids and I'm in my mid 30s. I had a single drink and bounced.

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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

I wouldn't know. I've always hated that kind of environment and generally don't get what people get out of it.

Elessar · 26-30, M

@CrazyMusicLover It's not too bad if you have a group or friend who enjoy going together. Especially if you know the DJ who gives you his own VIP pass and free drink card 😅🥴

(Even though 90% of the drinks they sell in there are.. homeopathic 🙈)

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

@Elessar Lol, still noisy and a high probability of encountering these obnoxiously extroverted people. 😆

Elessar · 26-30, M

@CrazyMusicLover But it's people who for the most part you won't see anymore after the event 🙈

Crimsondrops · 36-40, M

@CrazyMusicLover I used to feel "alive" going out. It was fun and I used to love dancing and having drinks with friends.

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

@Crimsondrops I like lively atmosphere sitting in a restaurant having a drink and chatting but I hate loud music where I can't talk with anyone.

Crimsondrops · 36-40, M

@CrazyMusicLover Hearing is crucial.