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Do you ever get to live the life you want? How often does that happen in a lifetime?

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M Best Comment
Few of us get the life we want.
Primarily because we have obligations to parties and people we'd rather not have too much to deal with if choice played any part.

Family can make demands you tolerate out of begrudging respect.
Employers think they can make unrealistic expectations and your refusal to comply can make worklife unnecessarily difficult.

And so we get stuck on these irritating merry-go-rounds trying to keep everyone else happy while losing sight of whatever it was that we thought we wanted.

To a lucky small percentage. But even those lofty perches weren't gained without sacrifice and setback.

For the remainder of us, circumstance and cold realties dictate we live out some watered down version of our dreams. Or sometimes we must forfeit them all together.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
That’s true. @SethGreene531
Umile · 41-45, F
Not really. But, it's perspective.

Not often, I'm guessing.

I must lived a GOOD life in another life, cause this life aint all the way popping.

Smh.

#excuseme #letmebebitter
I get to. I have free will. But that will has been hijacked by my history to the point where my need to survive outweighs my true desires.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
You need to make it happen. It won’t happen if you don’t pursue it
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@Casheyane I got there. Been there for years
Casheyane · F
@Jenny1234 And then?
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@Casheyane and then what?
Carissimi · 70-79, F
No, but I make the best of the life I have. I don’t think there are that many who truly are living the life they wanted, or imagined for themselves.
Bri89 · 31-35, M
I already burned that bridge years ago, sadly.
Casheyane · F
@Bri89 Meaning, you lost hope and gave up?
Raaii · 22-25, F
[c=800000]noh I've never [/c]
@Raaii Sometimes it's about finding the ones who want to live with you.
Casheyane · F
@thewindupbirdchronicles I want to find the ones who would not only live with me, but who would see me for me and want the best for me.

I have been working hard to give people what I think they need. It wasn't my responsibility before but I chose accountability.

Then I realized I lost myself and what I want in my quest to make them okay and happy. So there.
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HumanEarth · 56-60, F
Oh I feel a lot better now. I'm in a better mood now
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
Sorry for being a drag
Casheyane · F
@HumanEarth No. I appreciate the honesty.
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