when you help someone out financially

and they say they will make payments at such and such time monthly..then that time comes and goes..so you merely ask for communication..and they get an attitude like you owe them money....

anyone else experience this? 😤😤😤

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SW-User

Yup I had a friend do this once, I finally got the money back from her but I wouldn’t lend her money ever again. Now if someone needs any I just gift it to them then there’s no wondering when I’ll get it back.

exchrist · 31-35

@SW-User i appreciate that im actually owed close to 850 but ive settled with ppl to get anything back so. . If they come back it might be restraining order

NickyLee · 41-45

@SW-User I usually just accept that I'm not getting it back.

Other times I remind people who they are borrowing it from. Depends on my mood I guess

SW-User

@NickyLee I feel you, There’s only 2 people I do that with now, my bestie (when she was leaving a bad relationship) and my daughter.