when you help someone out financially

and they say they will make payments at such and such time monthly..then that time comes and goes..so you merely ask for communication..and they get an attitude like you owe them money....

anyone else experience this? 😤😤😤

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exchrist · 31-35

So many times 4 different ppl owe me a total of 550$ rhey play as soon as i get paid card that day comes and goes they never pay keep showing up though begging for money and wanting to eat my food. I dont lend money anymore

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@exchrist and they are so believable when they say they'll pay you back

exchrist · 31-35

@foldedunfolding thats how long theyve been playing the game. Once u know the few dozen tricks. Broken record, sob story, i need something(food medicine etc.) Plus the psychology and opportunity development. Its a dangerous game financially

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@exchrist even worse..the ones who play the long game: 3 smaller loans up front, always paid back..then a bigger loan bc now you trust them..boom..they're gone

exchrist · 31-35

@foldedunfolding i sort of had that but it was more made a 40$ payment toward 100 then couldnt be found for 6 months

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@exchrist one of mine was around 400 3 separate times..then 650..then poof

exchrist · 31-35

@foldedunfolding ah thats particularly impressive on their part the long game takes discipline. At least u r surviving though