when you help someone out financially

and they say they will make payments at such and such time monthly..then that time comes and goes..so you merely ask for communication..and they get an attitude like you owe them money....

anyone else experience this? 😤😤😤

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Starguy · 26-30, M

Did it once and had the same experience, never lent money to anyone again since, so awkward saying no to someone in a situation like that though.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@Starguy ugh sure is..and they MILK that fact dont they

Starguy · 26-30, M

@foldedunfolding I usually don't talk to them anymore out of guilt of saying no...

But! I do notice the only people who ever asked are colleagues or associates who I only just started getting close with which is weird.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@Starguy most of the ones i have helped lately are folks i have known for years, so it really hurts to lose that friendship.