when you help someone out financially

and they say they will make payments at such and such time monthly..then that time comes and goes..so you merely ask for communication..and they get an attitude like you owe them money....

anyone else experience this? 😤😤😤

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uncalled4 · 56-60, M

You just learned why they're in trouble to begin with.

I've rarely loaned money to anyone. When I have, it's always been a disaster. In the unusual circumstance where I do such a thing, I consider the money gone; this way, it's easier on my brain and nervous system.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@uncalled4 yeah..this time it was not a loan. it was them being immature and spoiled sigh. but yeah i do understand what you mean.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

@foldedunfolding It bothers me to see good deeds go punished. It also bothers me that people don't appreciate help. But, I've learned that some people absolutely deserve to be where they are.

foldedunfolding · 41-45, F

@uncalled4 yeah absofrigginlutely