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I had a dream last night I was at a storage unit witha few friends and my Gramma. My mother appears out of no where w some random guy. It was strange

Especially bc she died 19 years ago. She looked like her, but slightly different and she was taller. Amazing to see someone you know…it really messed with my brain. The group was conversing in a circle just outside the garage door when she arrived. She approaches the group and says she didn’t die. She just disappeared for awhile. Everyone is in aw looking at her bc everyone there went to her funeral. It was silent with a mix of uncomfortable shifting and staring back and forth at one another. One of my friends mouths “What is happening?” when then my mother breaks into the center of the circle, lightly crouch-walking toward me with her hands out. She clasped my hands in hers, “ I am not dead. I am here.” She smiles. I look at her in shock. I missed that face. I dart my eyes over at the group, they’re just standing uncertain and watching. I notice the random guy. He was tall, lanky, wearing a leather jacket, slicked back hair and had a cig behind his ear. He was watching but keeping his distance slightly behind the group. My mother shakes my hands. I could feel cold metal. I look down at her and notice she’s wearing many rings… she had rings but I don’t recall them being this many I thought to myself. “I am here,” she says again. I look up from her rings to her eyes. She lets go of my hands.

Dramatically, she walks over to an old plaid couch we had previously dragged out of the storage unit. She lays down with one foot on the couch, and the other barely touching the ground. The back of her right hand was resting on her forehead and her left hand was stretched out toward the ground. She lay there staring passed everything into space as if she’d walk 40 miles non stop. Dramatic. Tall and lanky guy walks over to the side of the plaid couch and leans against it without making a sound. He’s just looking at us.

“ What are you doing here!?” a friend says. “ How could you do this!?” my Grandmother says. Energy is building, but Mother doesn’t break her pose. We’re all just looking for answers. All of us confused. Tall and lanky smirks. He puts the cig from his ear to his lips. He lights it with a big metal lighter. Blows smoke. People arrive loudly at the storage unit a couple units down. They set up a table and immediately start sorting things out on it. My group turns to look at them a for a moment, but then return their focus to the couch. Warm smelly smoke fills our lungs as it curls into our nostrils.

Mother is now sitting on one half of the couch. She’s shaking her curls. She’s shaking her head while looking at the ground. “ I’m here. I faked my death,” she looks up at us, “ I left. It was the way I thought I could leave at the time. Don’t be mad at me. I’m back now. I want to see all the things I have missed.” With those words tension builds in my chest. Mother looks at my friends and the items we have pulled out. My throat feels dry. You can tell she’s oddly eager to touch the items. I walk toward her. I can’t open my mouth. She speaks again “I’m sure your life was wonderful. You had a good life with out me, so it’s all okay now. I’m back to start over with you. I love you.” I’m at a loss for words. My eyebrows furrowed. I start to tingle in my limbs. I can’t get my voice to work. She’s looking at me. My Grandmother then comes over to my side. “Tell her,” my Grandmother says. Gramma stomps her foot, “Tell her. Go on.”

“ I lived a sad life. I lived a sad life!” I said. “ You were gone. My father abandoned me right after. I lived a sad Life!” Something clicked inside of me and this massive feeling shot through my whole body. “ I lived a sad life With Out You. Abandoned!” Mother starts to squirm. She looks puzzled staring back and forth between my Grandmother and I. Mother was at a loss for words as if this was new information, as if she imagined this encounter to go differently. My Mother did not simply leave on a whim.

A howling cry suddenly came from the unit a few units down. We all look. I saw red hair glistening in the sun. It was Sara. Ben’s Sara . She was holding a jean jacket crying “ I’m not sure if I should keep this or not,” she says between tears. “Keep it for a little while longer then” the girl next to her says. “ I have to clean this unit out” she replies… Ben unfortunately died in a biking accident 2 years go. Sara is my friend. Ben was my friend. Of course we all supported Sara when we found out about Ben in her time of need. Death of a loved one is painful. Death is also more than just disappearing

In a flash I turn back and stare at Mother. My eyes still furrowed and that feeling still fuming off my skin. [i]Get out of here.[/i] The feeling aimed at her said. Death is more than just disappearing I barely moved my lips. Mother gets up and awkwardly runs off, with Tall and Lanky a few paces behind her.

That was not My Mother. That was an imposter caught in an act to mess with me. Even a “dream imposter” should know to do better research and should know better than to mess with the Truth. I look up at the sky and picture My Mother’s face in my mind. “I will always love you. I will always remember Your face. Rest In Peace.”

~;*+ Happy Mother’s Day +*;~ 2025 ~;*+~
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1. Core theme: Confronting unresolved abandonment and grief
Your mother’s “return” in the dream represents the lingering psychological presence of your unresolved relationship with her loss. The fact that she appears taller and slightly different suggests she is not the same mother of your memory but an altered, imagined, or internalized version—part memory, part fantasy, part wish. This dream mother insists, “I am not dead,” reflecting your unconscious wish to undo the trauma of her death and abandonment.

2. The storage unit: symbol of the psyche
A storage unit is a perfect metaphor for the subconscious: a compartment where old memories, unresolved emotions, and painful experiences are locked away but not forgotten. You and your friends pulling things out shows you actively “opening” these past experiences for examination.

3. The tall, lanky man: shadow figure
This archetypal figure (leather jacket, cigarette, silent observer) represents the shadow in Jungian terms. He could symbolize both your internalized cynicism, detachment, or skepticism (smirking observer of painful truths), and the darker forces that accompany trauma—the side of you that mistrusts false hope or easy answers.

4. Your speech and paralysis
The inability to speak and the dry throat reflect emotional repression and the lifetime of unspoken grief and resentment. The outburst of “I lived a sad life without you!” is the breakthrough moment—the release of long-buried anger, grief, and recognition of the wound left by parental loss and abandonment.

5. Sara and Ben’s cameo: reality check
The Sara/Ben vignette serves as a dream juxtaposition. It confronts your psyche with the real nature of death (Ben’s tragic accident) versus the surreal fantasy of a mother who “just disappeared.” It emphasizes the finality of true loss. This makes you realize that the “returned mother” is an impostor, a psychological trick, an internal phantom of wish fulfillment.

6. The final expulsion
The dream ends with your empowered recognition of Truth: “That was not my mother.” You reject the false comfort of the dream-imposter. This is highly significant—it represents psychic maturation. You reclaim your reality and reassert the boundary between real grief and seductive illusions.

7. Emotional resolution
The closing line, “I will always love you… Rest in peace,” signifies acceptance. You symbolically lay your real mother to rest, distinguishing her authentic memory from deceptive inner projections.

Overall meaning:
This is a dream of profound psychological confrontation. It reflects the long shadow of maternal loss and abandonment but also shows you actively wrestling with that wound, rejecting illusions, and moving toward painful acceptance. It suggests you have reached a deeper level of awareness about the nature of grief: death is not disappearance; it is irrevocable absence.

The dream shows a triumph of truth over fantasy, mature mourning over denial. It is, in many ways, a healing dream, though forged through psychic struggle.
MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F
@FrogManSometimesLooksBothWays Thank you for your understanding 💕🥲
GerOttman · 61-69, M
I have sometimes thought that so long as someone lives on in your memory, they are not really gone. I don't think someone is really gone until everyone who remembers them is gone too.
Summer2025 · F
She faked her death, hijacked Mother’s Day, and laid on a couch like it was Broadway. Iconic. Delusional, but iconic.

 
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