I have said goodbye to my ex boyfriend for good

I wrote him one last letter saying everything that I felt and since he wants nothing to do with me. I’m just going to leave him alone now. I told him to please take care and have a good life same as he told me. I can’t jeep waiting around hoping he will change his mind about being my good friend. It’s not going to happen. He made his choice of a life without me and I can’t force him to be my best friend. I can’t force him to love me in any form.. so it’s goodbye my friend, hello heartache for me and hush hush just like the Avril Lavigne songs.

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dpoet · 36-40, M

why are you doing that? why don't you give a chance?

midnightmagic · 31-35, F

@dpoet because he doesn’t want to be my friend for a long time and cut all ties with me a year and a half ago. I tried convincing him to stay my friend especially after I told him about my grandparents deaths and losing our dog but he never answered any of my emails or messages..

dpoet · 36-40, M

@midnightmagic so he was no longer your bf?

midnightmagic · 31-35, F

@dpoet he was not my boyfriend anymore but we were good friends for eight months after the breakup but then he got engaged and ended our friendship.

dpoet · 36-40, M

@midnightmagic what were you expecting?

midnightmagic · 31-35, F

@dpoet I was hoping to stay good friends and stay in each others lives while he had a new relationship and marriage to his wife but that was very naive thinking. He told me long ago we would always be friends before he met his bride.