Yes @VeronicaJane that’s the story of my life and that’s why when people say move on it’s not that easy.

@Rogo1 oh definitely. Sometimes it falls into the "Easier said, than done" category. Especially if an ex, with kids, or when both parties work in the same office professionally.

I get the 'quick to reach out to me for advise and support' in the professional sense. It's the wanting to speak with you every night before she goes to bed part that is the monkey wrench. Does not really seem that she actually has actually moved on.

If I might ask, the elephant in the room is -- Why is she your ex? That answer probably will better inform the calling every night part....

I think she’s just playing games

@OlderSometimesWiser yeah you are right, it’s a complicated situation I’ve been dealing with for a while. It’s really been hard.

@Rogo1 Now’s the time to take care of it as your life’s about to get busier and more complicated.

@Nunki you definitely are right, we’ve said this a couple of times and tried it but I guess we have to make more effort.

Been there. Story of my life, actually 🫤
Good luck @Rogo1

@Nunki thanks, though I was wondering how you got over your ex ?

@DeWayfarer you are totally right, I think she’s just afraid to move on completely and vice versa.

@Rogo1 ask her! 🤷🏻‍♂

It's the only way you can be certain.

@Dolimyte true everyone has said it, unfortunately we dated for a long while so it’s taking both of us a little bit longer to detach, well that’s my thinking.

@Carazaa so many hurtful things said and I think we just have the worst timing between us that we never seem to be able to make it work.

@dale74 thanks I actually know that as painful as it sounds

@JamesBugman lol

@4meAndyou hahaha