Trust me I know. I tried to be a the feminine cross dresser thing. That is hard to do, when feminine is not in your in nature.

I learned as much I like wearing female clothing and I also learned I'm not into being feminine. So I learned being androgynous was perfect for me.

I can be masculine and wear women's shit at the same time.

Just do your own thing and fuck the world. I do and you can to.

I have no need to dress feminine or sophisticated or thought through when I'm cold and it's dark wintertime. I'm not dressing for others pleasure. I'm dressing for myself. Came home from the store just now

I learned early that to some people I would never be worthy of respect, regardless of how I dressed [b]or[/b] behaved. So while I dress "appropriately" for specific occasions; generally, I dress to please myself. 🤔

For me, dressing to look like anything other than a hobo is tiresome 😂

I guess. I guess it is harder to put on tighter pants.