Dressing to look more feminine is tiresome

This year I tried to dress more feminine, but I couldn't keep up that persona for long. Wearing cute shoes, with a nice blouse and a skirt or pants was nice, but I'm usually someone who likes to dress based on my mood for the day. I believe it goes with that mindset that dressing nice makes people respect you more. But I've found out that it doesn't matter how good you look, respect is earned not given. Sometimes wearing a hoodie with baggy pants is enough.

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Jonjdw · 46-50, M

I guess. I guess it is harder to put on tighter pants.

Puppycat23 · F

@Jonjdw I dislike tight pants tbh. the popping sound they make when walking is irritating. I would rather be comfortable

Jonjdw · 46-50, M

@Puppycat23 I understand. You can look good with regular comfortable clothes. Not that it has to matter to you. My dress looks comfortable I wear jeans and a T-shirt and a hoodie. But I will not wear sweatpants any where or anytime. Jeans are just fine.